F.A.Q.

I’m often described as having girlfriend energy. Giggly, playful, and easy to be around.

The kind of person that dances in grocery aisles, DJs impromptu playlists, and always has a fun fact or flirt tucked away.

A little cheeky, mostly bubbly and soft. Big tease. I love watching you react, and getting to know new people through touch. Occasionally over-expressive, sometimes pouty, in a way that tends to make people smile.

Treat me with care and honesty, and I promise the chemistry will follow. 🌱

I’m most at ease when we’re flirting, laughing, or sharing small sensory details together. If certain kinds of conversation or affirmation help you feel more comfortable or cared for, let me know and I’ll do my best 🌸

I love talking about art, music, pop culture, history, and tech, but I tend to steer away from politics to keep things light. Most likely to follow your lead and see what resonates with you.

I don’t love questions about my personal life. I’m quite happy with where I am, and I prefer to keep our focus on the present moment.

I occasionally carry conversation cards, just in case we’re lost for words. Still, my favourite thing is simply noticing people. How they move, think, and interact with the world around them.

I’m South Asian, curvy and soft. With 34DDs and a cute bubble butt. I have a few tattoos, and rarely wear earrings. I have a soft midsection. Nice to hold.

Aesthetically, I’m most often in black mesh. Occasionally with knee-high socks. Think goth baby doll.

I tend to shave my armpits and Brazilian every few weeks, then let it grow out before repeating the cycle. If you have a preference for either end of that spectrum, let me know and we’ll see where things are at.

Everything else stays.

My nails are kept short and trimmed. I have small tattoos scattered around, and, if it helps, I’ve been told I have very nice feet.

I wear wigs sometimes; they help me feel extra cute and feminine. My current favourite is long black hair with bangs.

The body is easy enough to adorn differently. If there’s something specific you’d like me to embody, wear, or paint, let me know. Any additional costs will simply be added to your rate.

I currently offer services only in English. I understand a bit of French and German, and your support go towards improving my language skills!

I understand south asian languages, but don’t provide services in them.

If we can’t communicate clearly in English, I won’t be able to see you. It’s not personal. I’ve learned that miscommunication can lead to uncomfortable or unsafe situations, and clarity is essential for consent and care.

My favourite gifts are tips. They make me feel appreciated and special. 😇

I do not drink. But sparkling juice and non alcoholic wine are always welcome. Or my favourite drink from SQDC.

At the moment, I have use for giftcards for sephora, spa carré louise, and canadian tire. …and I’ve been eyeing pieces from simons, uniqlo, blush and urban outfitters 🍑

In general, I’m a simple creature, and enjoy gentle well-intentioned things. At the moment, a little obsessed with perfume samples. Let me know if you recognize what I’m wearing. 👀

I began in massage parlours, where I learned a lot about pacing, presence, and what genuine connection feels like. Now that I’m newly independent, I’m excited to shape sessions that feel more personal and true to me. 🍀

I’m currently in soft launch mode. If there’s something you’d like that isn’t listed yet, feel free to suggest it.

I like people. I like getting to know them in ways that feel real and intimate. Connection feels healing to me.

I also love sex and touch, so this work lets me be helpful, cute, and sexy all at once. I get to share care, curiosity, and pleasure… and peek into the lives of strangers for a little while. It makes me feel good.

its care work, tbh 💗

Payments can be made in cash, etransfer or Throne.

After looking through the booking form and any back and forth, I usually set out the final amount and deposit required.

I require a 50% deposit to secure and confirm a booking. This can be done via Throne or etransfer to ivynettle@proton.me

The remaining balance can be offered in cash at the start of our meeting or through Throne or etransfer if you prefer a digital option.

I require at least 12 hours notice for cancellations. Any less, the deposit is forefit to cover the time and energy I set aside. You must rebook at a later date.

If you’d like to reschedule and keep your deposit banked, I require 14 hours notice or more.

I prefer at least 24 hours’ notice, especially for first-time clients. I plan my days carefully, and last-minute bookings throw off my rhythm.

If you’d like to book with less than 24 hours notice, minimum 5 hours notice is required, and there’s a $70 rush fee. Mostly because it means I’ve had to move things around to make room.

This fee is reduced to $20 once we’ve seen each other four times or more. At that point, you’re officially a regular. 🍀

It takes me around 24 hours to process a screening. I delete the information after our date.

Discretion and safety are both important to me. I take several measures to make sure your information stays safe and secure. I expect the same from you.

For screening, I require

• A selfie holding your photo ID next to your face. You’re welcome to blur or cover everything except your full name, photo, and date of birth. This makes me feel safer meeting a stranger.
• If you’ve seen another established companion within the past year, please include one reference in your email — their name, email address, and roughly when you last met.
• Send everything to ivynettle@proton.me
• Thank you in advance, for taking the time to do this. Appreciate it 💌
   
  

Please be ready for me at the agreed-upon time.

If you’re running late or need to adjust, just send a quick message. I’m usually looking forward to our time, and it makes me a little pouty when plans disappear without notice. 👿

I will be doing the same!

If we are meeting in public, you can hand me the donation in something visible but discreet — an envelope, book, or card works perfectly. I’ll excuse myself briefly to take care of it before we begin.

I’ll arrive freshly showered, brushed, and well-prepared for our date, and I expect the same from you.

For those who prefer extra safety and barriers, I bring gloves, dental dams, and other safer-sex supplies. All services are covered.

For now, I mainly offer outcalls. bookings outside the 1 pm – 7 pm window include a $30 transportation fee. I love public transit and biking, but late nights or mornings (as a whole) are a little trickier.

My favourite bookings are at hotels with fresh sheets and a good shower. If you’d like me to arrange the space instead, that’s an additional $100.

I adore my regulars. If we see each other on somewhat of a regular basis, I am able to offer more things, like social time, dinner dates, and longer bookings.

I also enjoy making things special, and often go out of my way to think of things that might make our time together exciting. Like I’ve said, girlfriend energy.

Regulars also have access to a privileged number and can book me with a reduced rush fee of $20.

I don’t drink alcohol or participate in hard drugs, but I do partake in 420. If you bring me my favourite drink, I’ll be very excited — but no pressure.

You’re welcome to enjoy what you like, but I’d caution waiting until our rendezvous. Substances can get in the way of playtime. Which means I can’t watch you make a mess. meow. 🙁

I love the build-up more than rushing into it. I like letting tension grow naturally. Please assume there won’t be kissing unless I initiate.

When the chemistry’s right, a kiss can be electric. but I don’t usually enjoy it right away with new people, and I trust that you’ll let things unfold at their own pace.

Please be freshly brushed and minty; It helps us both relax and enjoy each other more.

If you’ve read this far, mention SOUR PATCH in the booking form. it’s my little way to know you read carefully.

Some people like to connect by voice before meeting. I’m happy to do a brief phone call if that helps you feel more at ease.

Calls are available after screening and deposit, and kept short (around 5–10 minutes). They’re meant for vibe-checks and logistics, not full chats or playtime.

If you’d like to schedule one, just mention it when you reach out and we’ll find a time that works. 🙂

Full service includes hj, bj, daty, dato (on me), and intercourse.

If there’s something specific you want to explore, let me know and we can chat it out. You can also consult Donations for the full menu.

I love to hold people, and I love to be held. It’s very special to share breath with someone.

At minimum, for this service, I request we keep underwear on. If the mood arises, we can play over the clothes . Or not. It’s up to you.

Happy to move at the pace of trust.

Always excited to explore! before a booking, we’ll go over safewords, fantasies, and comfort levels.

I’m a switch and comfortable with most things. as a bottom, I adore spanking and control play. as a top, i often dish out spanking, anal experiments, a dash of humiliation, and tickling.

Unless we’ve seen each other several times, I recommend soft dom / soft power-dynamic scenarios with loving check-ins throughout. I also like to build in time for aftercare — cuddling, snacks, and grounding — especially for heavier scenes.

Kinks or roleplays that require extra planning, stamina, or character work (like DDlg, pegging, spanking, or dollification) are +$100. Lighter interests (like feet, armpits, or sensory focus) are +$50. if you’re not sure where something fits, just ask.

If we’ve seen each other a few times, I may suggest things we could try for our next date — usually reserved for people I click with and who treat me with respect.

I’m happy to offer worn items. Usually about $50 per item. Email me!