F.A.Q.

Clients often tell me I have a soothing, grounding energy. Warm, steady, and easy to relax around.

I take my time. I move slowly, I notice everything, and I let chemistry build in a way that feels unhurried and real.

When the moment feels right, there’s a spark. A little mischief in my smile, a teasing comment, or a giggle I can’t quite hide. I love flirting in a way that feels playful and slow-burn, not rushed or performative.

I enjoy touch, breath, and the quiet moments in between. I’m expressive, curious, and I love learning what helps you relax.

Treat me with care and honesty, and I promise the connection will follow 🌱

I’m South Asian, curvy and soft. In my mid-late 20s.

With 34DDs and a cute bubble butt. I have a few discreet tattoos, and rarely wear earrings. I have a soft midsection.

Aesthetically, I’m most often in black mesh. Occasionally with knee-high socks. Think goth baby doll.

I tend to wax my underarms and Brazilian every few weeks, then let it grow out before repeating the cycle. If you have a preference for either end of that spectrum, let me know and we’ll see where things are at.

Everything else stays.

My nails are kept short and trimmed. I have small tattoos scattered around, and, if it helps, I’ve been told I have very nice feet (Size 6-7.5, depending on the shoe).

The body is easy enough to adorn differently. If there’s something specific you’d like me to embody, wear, or paint, let me know. Any additional costs will simply be added to your rate.

I currently offer services only in English.

I understand a bit of French and German, and your support go towards improving my language skills!

If we can’t communicate clearly in English, I won’t be able to see you. It’s not personal. I’ve learned that miscommunication can lead to uncomfortable or unsafe situations, and clarity is essential for consent and care.

Gifts are absolutely not required. But they’re always noticed. If gifting is your love language, there are many options.

I have a weakness for travel-sized perfume. If you quietly leave one tucked in the corner, or make a bit of a show of presenting it… I’ll be very charmed either way.

If you’re in the mood for something more indulgent, I’m currently craving:

• Clear Reserve’s Rain
• Nishane HSW
• SHL’s Sand Dance.

For treats at our rendezvous, sealed sparkling juice, non-alcoholic wine, or my favourite drink from SQDC. No alcohol.

If we click, I’ll remember what you like too 🦋

Gift cards? Lovely. sephora, spa carré louise, canadian tire, simons, uniqlo, blush, urban outfitters.

Or for my creative spirit, Les Affutes, Core Fabrics or L’Euguelionne.

And tips? They truly warm my heart. 🥹

Newly independent, I’m shaping my offerings in a way that feels more personal and true to me. 🍀

I’m also in soft-launch mode. This means I’m open, attentive, and refining things as I go.

If there’s something you’d like that isn’t listed yet, feel free to suggest it. I’ll let you know what aligns with my energy and boundaries.

I like people. I like getting to know them in ways that feel real and intimate. Connection feels healing to me.

I also love play and touch, so this work lets me be helpful, cute, and sexy all at once. I get to share care, curiosity, and pleasure… and peek into the lives of strangers for a little while.

its care work, tbh 💗

Payments can be made in cash, etransfer or Throne.

After looking through the booking form and any back and forth, I usually set out the final amount and deposit required.

I require a 20% deposit to secure and confirm a booking. This can be done via Throne or etransfer to ivynettle@proton.me

The remaining balance can be offered in cash at the start of our meeting or through Throne or etransfer if you prefer a digital option.

I require at least 48 hours notice for cancellations. Any less, the deposit is forefit to cover the time and energy I set aside. You must rebook at a later date.

If you’d like to reschedule and keep your deposit banked, I require 24 hours notice or more.

I prefer at least 24 hours’ notice, especially for first-time clients. I plan my days carefully, and last-minute bookings throw off my rhythm.

If you’d like to book with less than 24 hours notice, minimum 5 hours notice is required, and there’s a $70 rush fee. Mostly because it means I’ve had to move things around to make room.

As a small thank you, once we’ve seen each other four times or more, your rush fee drops to $20. I value long-term connection. 🍀

It takes me around 24 hours to process a screening. I delete the information after our date.

For screening, I require

• A selfie holding your photo ID next to your face. You’re welcome to blur or cover everything except your full name, photo, and date of birth. This makes me feel safer meeting a stranger.
• If you’ve seen another established companion within the past year, please include one reference in your email — their name, email address, and roughly when you last met.
• Send everything to ivynettle@proton.me
• Thank you in advance, for taking the time to do this. Appreciate it 💌
   
  

Please be ready for me at the agreed-upon time.

If you’re running late or need to adjust, just send a quick message. I’m usually looking forward to our time, and it makes me a little cranky when plans disappear without notice.

I will be doing the same!

If we are meeting in public, you can hand me the donation in something visible but discreet — an envelope, book, or card works perfectly. I’ll excuse myself briefly to take care of it before we begin.

I’ll arrive freshly showered, brushed, and well-prepared for our date, and I expect the same from you.

For those who prefer extra safety and barriers, I bring gloves, dental dams, and other safer-sex supplies. All services are covered.

I am usually available 2 pm – 7 pm. For now, I mainly offer outcalls.

Outcalls outside the 2 pm – 7 pm include a $50 transportation fee. I love public transit and biking, but late nights or mornings (as a whole) are a little trickier.

My favourite bookings are at hotels with fresh sheets and a good shower. If you’d like me to arrange the space instead, I charge an admin fee of $50. Best for bookings between 11am and 5pm.

I don’t drink or use hard drugs, though I do partake in 420. If you bring me my favourite drink, I’ll be very excited, but no pressure.

You’re welcome to enjoy what you like, but I’d caution waiting until after our rendezvous. Substances can dull the experience — and I’d hate to miss the chance to see how beautifully you come undone. 🥺

Please assume there won’t be kissing unless I initiate. I like letting tension grow naturally.

When the chemistry’s right, a kiss can be electric. but I don’t usually enjoy it right away with new people, and I trust that you’ll let things unfold at their own pace.

Please be freshly brushed and minty; It helps us both relax and enjoy each other more.

If you’ve read this far, mention SOUR PATCH in the booking form. it’s my little way to know you read carefully.

Some clients like to connect by voice before meeting. I’m happy to do a brief phone call if that helps you feel more at ease.

Calls are available after screening and deposit, and kept short (around 5–10 minutes). They’re meant for vibe-checks and logistics, not full chats or playtime.

If you’d like to schedule one, just mention it when you reach out and we’ll find a time that works. 🙂

I don’t answer personal-life questions.
I’m quite happy with where I am, and I prefer to keep our focus on the present moment.

I’m most at ease when we’re flirting, laughing, or sharing small sensory details together. I’m a better listener than storyteller.

Easy things to ask me:
• What music I’ve been listening to
• What I’ve been making, tinkering with, or dreaming up
• How my cat is doing
• What textures, sounds, or moods I’m into today
These kinds of questions help me stay connected, curious, and playful with you.

I’m always happy to riff on art, music, pop culture, or tech.
I tend to keep things light and easygoing (no politics).

Still, my favourite thing is simply noticing people — how they move, how they think, how they interact with the world around them.
And of course, paying attention to you.

FS includes CBJ, DATY, DATO (on me). LFK at my discretion.

After the intake form, you get an email with screening and we chat about what you are hoping for, and any extras you’d like to add. That way, our expectations match.

If there’s something specific you want to explore, let me know and we can chat it out. You can also consult Donations for the full menu.

I love to hold people, and I love to be held. It’s very special to share breath with someone.

We can be in our base layers.

Happy to move at the pace of trust.

I cap social dates at 90 minutes. It keeps things light, fun, and easy.

I don’t do dinner dates. I prefer to enjoy meals on my own time.

I do love outings that let us chat, wander, and share something new together.

Activities that are fun and easy with me are

• Art Galleries — I keep a list of shows handy
• Going to the biodome or planetarium
• Arts and Crafts, like the ceramic cafe
• Catching a movie or play at an indie theatre
• Or, if you’re in the mood for something a little naughtier, we could hit a strip club and tip generously.

Feel free to suggest what you’re thinking of.

Always excited to explore. After the initial inquiry, we’ll go over safewords, fantasies, and comfort levels together.

I offer a soft / pleasure dom experience. If you want someone to smile very sweetly and giggle while they do unspeakable things to you, we’ll probably be a good match. During our first session or two, you can expect loving check-ins throughout.

Fetish or roleplays that require extra planning, stamina, or character work may be a little extra on top of my usual fee.

As with a general booking, after the intake form, you get a detailed form with yes/nos to choose from, including options for extras.

If we’ve seen each other a few times, I might suggest something new to try on our next date. This is usually reserved for people I click with, who treat me with care and respect.

Let’s have fun. 💗

I’m happy to offer worn items. Usually about $50 per item. Email me!